How do I help a family member who WANTS to be sober?

2021.12.08 21:56 SoberSa11y How do I help a family member who WANTS to be sober?

Kind of a different situation. I use this sub for myself as I struggle with alcohol. I’m coming here for new advice: I have a family member who has been struggling with sobriety for many years.
When they talk about their problem, they must think I’m some kind of prophet, because I know exactly how they feel. I can relate to them. I’ve not necessarily been vocal about my alcohol habits, and intend to keep it that way.
They go through these waves of “I’m an alcoholic, I need help” one week, to “I don’t see where the problem is” the next week and go on an absolute bender. Zero consistency.
The only thing that made me stop was the BURNING desire to feel normal again. It was like one day I snapped and I was just done, nothing was going to stop me. Don’t get me wrong, I stumbled along the way, but each morning after I drank I was filled with regret and hopped right back on the train thereafter stronger than I was before. I KNOW my family member has that desire. I’ve seen it, I’ve heard it from them. They just can’t for the life of them get it to stick for any lengthy period of time.
Any advice at all that you guys could offer?
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Hello, I'm new to reddit so I thought id post this hear , if you have any advice please do say Sorry mi not sure how to get rid of the number list reddit put there , just don't pay attention to it

  1. ------My schools grand heist------ Hello I'm the friend / ex friend of the person who committed this crime so I have all the information. this may be picked up by the news outlets but we are unsure till tomorrow. everyone will get fake names to protect there identity and the school name will not be provided for my safety aswell.
  2. Names T = Thief / Op = Me / GF = Good friend / F = Friend / HD = Headteacher / RT = Registration teacher / It Guy = It teacher / P = People that were sold the items
  3. ---Part 1--- This story starts about 3-4 mouths ago when I went to my registration class early I seen T stuff some keyboards in his bag as my registration class is also a Computing room and in this room there is a pile of pcs , monitors , keyboards , mouses and pc wires that the school was storing (not in use). So T took some keyboards and mouses. Later in the day in the school yard T was selling they keyboards and mouses in front of CCTV for 10 pounds each. This would continue for about 3 months. Then T decided to take a pc witch I estimate to be worth about 1k . I'm not sure if T sold this but I suspect that he has. And if he has he would of sold it for less then 100 , witch is way less then the re-sell price. So when this happened I knew he was screwed.
  4. ---Part 2---
  5. (needed information) Okay so about 2-3 weeks ago F decided to take all the k keys from they keyboards to mess with me because my name is Jay and J sounds the same so when he takes the J keys its more annoying to type my password lol.
  6. ---Part 3---
  7. So Yesterday Dec 7th HD came into registration to talk to OP , F , T and another friend about the mission Keys on the keyboards , he also said he noticed it was only the J keys. He asked who done it to come forward. T tried to get F to confece by kicking him and indecation it was him by looking at f the hd on repeat till hd left the room. RT came over and said it was weird it was only J keys while looking at me (she suspects its me). ---Part 4--- T goes to Hd and we suspect he has snitched on F as he is a know snitch so me and GF speak to F about it and say our suspicion and said how he said he cleared all of us apart from F so that brought the suspicion , we also suspect T lied and said F stole all the pcs, keyboards, mouses and wires but we said don't quote us on this. (edited)
  8. ---Part 5---
  9. I went to the HD 2at the end of the day to clarify the whole J key thing and when I explained it was someone done it to mess with me he said that makes sense and he dose have his suspicion's anyway so I'm fine, iv never been in trouble in school. HD also understood I cant snitch.
  10. ---Part 6---
  11. F says tomorrow , Dec 9th he will confece to the being the j Key thief lol. But F says he will also snitch on T.
  12. ---Part 7---
  13. OP and GF talked about it and what we think will happen to T , as we speculate he stole at least 1-3k but at most 10k. We also said all laws he had broke doing this 1: Theft , he also stole more then 200 pounds and he is above the age of 12 so he will get charges and a record. We suspect the police will be involved and we think we will need to give statements about the heist . We will 100% go agenst T. OP , F , Gf and maybe more are going to say the truth about this crime. We will also mention the cctv. We think T would probably be suspended/expelled , fined and because of how much he stole maybe juvenal detention center
  14. More updates tomorrow when the HD finds out
IM scared for tomorrow even know I never done anything and I don't know what to expect, and the thief is a old friend so I'm basically destroying his life, am I a bad person , am I a buthole ?
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